About me

Did you randomly come across my blog? People say there are no coincidences. Perhaps you are searching for literature and personal experiences about psychopathy. Maybe you have become a victim of a psychopath, or perhaps someone in your circle has? Or maybe you are dealing with this disorder for professional reasons.

Nowadays, this mental condition is somewhat more in the general public’s awareness. Nevertheless, I can tell you, if you are not directly affected or haven’t been, you might find it hard to believe any of this. There are hardly any better liars in this world than psychopaths, and it seems to me as if they have a kind of ‘seventh sense’ for their counterpart, knowing exactly where to strike for the most impact.

I started writing this blog a few years ago because I not only became a victim of a psychopath, but I also had to witness firsthand how he blatantly manipulated lawyers, prosecutors, and judges. No one noticed. To this day, they haven’t. There is a severe lack of proper training for this group of professionals. The more intelligent the psychopath, the better they are at weaving a sticky web of lies from which there is no escape.

Initially, I wrote about the injustice I experienced in the judicial system: evidence was evidently forged, even in court files, my signature was forged multiple times (including at UniCredit in Innsbruck), truths were twisted – even in hindsight, it all seems ‘like a bad dream’ that unfortunately never ends. The damages my ex-husband caused with his web of lies are too fundamental.
He destroyed my career, ruined my old circle of friends, and took all my money. Only my children eventually understood the basics of his behavior and still stand firmly by my side, even though I always tried to keep them as far away from these disastrous stories as possible. When I mentioned in court that I had written about everything that happened on my blog, it was immediately blocked with a temporary injunction. Although everything was described completely anonymously, he felt his personal rights were violated.
This is the reality – the protection of perpetrators still stands far above the protection of victims. The content was completely irrelevant.

At some point, I turned to a women’s rights group in London. Since then, my blog has only been published in English-speaking countries. I do not give up encouraging others to raise their voices.

I am sure that eventually, the truth will come out.

I wish you much strength on your journey. If you are also a victim and seeking help, I can highly recommend the site https://aftermath-surviving-psychopathy.org/. Here you will find the latest findings on the topic of psychopathy from the most renowned psychiatrists and psychologists in the USA and the EU.

Please don’t forget: ‘Psychopathic partners are merciless. But they are not gods!’ (Bärbel Melcher from ‘My Ex-Partner is a Psychopath’).
There is a way to break free from this destructive past.
You can do it!

I sincerely wish you much strength.